[DISCUSS] Lower Friction / Lower Ceremony (faster?) releases

### Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

Releasing DataFusion versions is described here:
- https://github.com/apache/datafusion/blob/main/dev/release/README.md

We have been releasing about once a month for the last three years. You can see the history here:
- https://crates.io/crates/datafusion/versions

However, there is some non trivial overhead to doing releases as @findepi has observed, such as the tarball creation and voting process.

Interestingly I believe that one of @jorgecarleitao 's concerns about arrow-rs when he created arrow2 was the (slow) pace of the Apache release model

### Describe the solution you'd like

I would like to discuss what we can do to make releasing easier (and therefore potentially more frequent)

### Describe alternatives you've considered

_No response_

### Additional context

* #13648

Start with dev/release/README.md and compare its described steps with the release history on crates.io. Review the overhead called out in this issue and the discussion in #13648, then identify concrete changes the project could agree on. Done means the release process has an agreed, documented lower-ceremony approach.

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