Improve performance for roundrobin shuffle writes for nested schemas

### What is the problem the feature request solves?

Noticed dramatic slowdown for tasks with shuffle writes for RR repartition comparing to Spark, 2-3x to be more precise.

Specifically for the nested schemas, there is some inefficiency when native shuffle deals with wide/complex fields. its invisible for TPC-* benchmarks because of historical flat schema. But in real user world this is pretty much downside.

### Describe the potential solution

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### Additional context

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