[Native Writer] INSERT INTO ... SELECT fails due to stale catalog cache after write

### Describe the bug

When using the native Parquet writer with INSERT INTO ... SELECT syntax, subsequent reads return empty results even though the file is written successfully. This could be due to Spark caching .

Ref https://github.com/apache/datafusion-comet/pull/3479/changes#r2804765579

```
withSQLConf(
CometConf.COMET_NATIVE_PARQUET_WRITE_ENABLED.key -> "true",
CometConf.COMET_EXEC_ENABLED.key -> "true",
CometConf.getOperatorAllowIncompatConfigKey(classOf[DataWritingCommandExec]) -> "true") {

sql("create table t(i boolean) using parquet")
sql("alter table t add column s bigint default 42")
sql("insert into t select false, default")
spark.table("t").show() // Returns empty!
}
```

expected : false, 42

actual: (0 rows)

Note: This issue does NOT affect INSERT INTO ... VALUES syntax, only INSERT INTO ... SELECT.

### Steps to reproduce

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### Expected behavior

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### Additional context

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