Improve performance of first/last aggregates

### What is the problem the feature request solves?

Comet is slower than Spark for `first` and `last` aggregates. Also, the behavior is not consistent with Spark (see https://github.com/apache/datafusion-comet/issues/1646 and https://github.com/apache/datafusion-comet/issues/1630). We should probably implement a custom version in Comet to match Spark behavior and try and optimize it.

```
OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM 17.0.17+10-Ubuntu-122.04 on Linux 6.8.0-90-generic
AMD Ryzen 9 7950X3D 16-Core Processor
first: Best Time(ms) Avg Time(ms) Stdev(ms) Rate(M/s) Per Row(ns) Relative
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Spark 48 56 13 21.8 45.8 1.0X
Comet (Scan) 58 60 2 18.1 55.2 0.8X
Comet (Scan + Exec) 61 65 3 17.1 58.6 0.8X

OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM 17.0.17+10-Ubuntu-122.04 on Linux 6.8.0-90-generic
AMD Ryzen 9 7950X3D 16-Core Processor
first_ignore_nulls: Best Time(ms) Avg Time(ms) Stdev(ms) Rate(M/s) Per Row(ns) Relative
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Spark 47 50 3 22.4 44.7 1.0X
Comet (Scan) 50 52 1 21.0 47.6 0.9X
Comet (Scan + Exec) 60 64 2 17.5 57.2 0.8X

OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM 17.0.17+10-Ubuntu-122.04 on Linux 6.8.0-90-generic
AMD Ryzen 9 7950X3D 16-Core Processor
last: Best Time(ms) Avg Time(ms) Stdev(ms) Rate(M/s) Per Row(ns) Relative
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Spark 45 48 3 23.1 43.2 1.0X
Comet (Scan) 47 54 9 22.4 44.7 1.0X
Comet (Scan + Exec) 76 79 4 13.7 72.7 0.6X

OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM 17.0.17+10-Ubuntu-122.04 on Linux 6.8.0-90-generic
AMD Ryzen 9 7950X3D 16-Core Processor
last_ignore_nulls: Best Time(ms) Avg Time(ms) Stdev(ms) Rate(M/s) Per Row(ns) Relative
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Spark 46 48 1 22.8 43.9 1.0X
Comet (Scan) 58 64 5 18.1 55.1 0.8X
Comet (Scan + Exec) 76 84 10 13.7 72.9 0.6X
```

### Describe the potential solution

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