Offload listing files and inferring stats workload to Executors for large tables(>10K+ files)

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Listing files and inferring stats will become a bottleneck for large tables.
Need to offload the work to Executors.
Ballista need to extend the current ListingTable implementations.

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Start by tracing the current ListingTable implementations and how Executors are used in Ballista. The issue does not name files or tests; done would mean listing files and inferring statistics for large tables are offloaded to Executors without the current bottleneck.

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