Weather report and erlang TLS distribution problem

## Description

Versions
- COUCHDB
_"couchdb":"Welcome","version":"3.3.1_"
- erl
_Erlang/OTP 25 [erts-13.2.2] [source] [64-bit] [smp:4:4] [ds:4:4:10] [async-threads:1] [jit:ns]_
- Rocky _8.7_

2 node cluster configured and looks like starts well, log output ->
_couch_replicator_clustering : cluster stable -> couch_replicator_clustering : cluster stable_

When I run /weatherreport --etc /opt/couchdb/etc/ without erlang TLS distribution configured, it works ->
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__Configuration Settings:
[admins] rocky="-pbkdf2-092b2a2214c80a33e720c76cf1b778b23cd95d9d,0d8c8fcd652bc1acc14f291eaead743f,10"
[admins] vagrant="-pbkdf2-6160777f3986cf1c320b01c46e631ecbea8f2910,5a95dcffdfcdc0a9cacfdb7d13a9f392,10"
[chttpd] bind_address="0.0.0.0"
[chttpd] port="5984"
[chttpd_auth] hash_algorithms="sha256, sha"
[chttpd_auth] secret="ed35b213650525d1987c810617000a23"
[couch_httpd_auth] authentication_db="_users"__
xxxx

When I run /weatherreport --etc /opt/couchdb/etc/ with erlang TLS distribution configured, it does not work ->
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_['couchdb_diag9868@couchdb1.dp.home'] [warning] Could not connect to the local cluster node 'couchdb@couchdb1.dp.home', some checks will not run.
['couchdb_diag9868@couchdb1.dp.home'] [crit] Bad rpc call executing check weatherreport_check_tcp_queues: nodedown
['couchdb_diag9868@couchdb1.dp.home'] [crit] Bad rpc call executing check weatherreport_check_search: nodedown
['couchdb_diag9868@couchdb1.dp.home'] [crit] Bad rpc call executing check weatherreport_check_safe_to_rebuild: nodedown
['couchdb_diag9868@couchdb1.dp.home'] [crit] Bad rpc call executing check weatherreport_check_process_memory: nodedown_
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Is it something wrong with the configuration of just weatherport is used somehow wrong?

A test table with new documents gets replicated either when erlang TLS distribution configured or not.
If I try to connect to the port 9100 SSL handshake starts ->
s_client -connect couchdb1.dp.home:9100

## Steps to Reproduce

1. install elrang (this step is needed as otherwise 22 version will be installed and weathereport will not run)
curl -s https://packagecloud.io/install/repositories/rabbitmq/erlang/script.rpm.sh | sudo bash
sudo yum install erlang -y

2. Install couchdb as per https://docs.couchdb.org/en/stable/install/unix.html#enabling-the-apache-couchdb-package-repository
**sudo yum install couchdb-3.3.1-1.el8.x86_64 -y**

3. Prepare the nodes for the cluster -> https://docs.couchdb.org/en/stable/setup/cluster.html
4. Create CA, server1cert.pem / server1key.pem && server2cert.pem / server2key.pem
5. Enable erlang TLS distribution ->https://docs.couchdb.org/en/stable/cluster/tls_erlang_distribution.html
6. The final changes will be

/opt/couchdb/etc/vm.args
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_-name couchdb@couchdb1.dp.home
#-name couchdb@couchdb2.dp.home
-setcookie SbFch4ESZSNBAF5ivZn34oKEDAT8H684V4TATER0dCxhGZwjk
-kernel inet_dist_use_interface {0,0,0,0}
-kernel inet_dist_listen_min 9100
-kernel inet_dist_listen_max 9200
-proto_dist inet_tls
-ssl_dist_optfile /etc/couchdb/newcert/couch_ssl_dist.conf_
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/etc/couchdb/newcert/couch_ssl_dist.conf (node1)
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_[{server,
[{certfile, "/etc/couchdb/newcert/couchdb1withprivate.pem"},
{secure_renegotiate, true}]},
{client,
[{cacertfile, "/etc/couchdb/newcert/CAcert.pem"},
{secure_renegotiate, true}]}]._
xxxxx

/etc/couchdb/newcert/couch_ssl_dist.conf (node2)
xxxxx
_[{server,
[{certfile, "/etc/couchdb/newcert/couchdb2withprivate.pem"},
{secure_renegotiate, true}]},
{client,
[{cacertfile, "/etc/couchdb/newcert/CAcert.pem"},
{secure_renegotiate, true}]}]._
xxxxx

## Expected Behavior
I would like to get the same output as when erlang TLS distribution is not configured.

## Your Environment

https://couchdb1.dp.home:6984
{"couchdb":"Welcome","version":"3.3.1","git_sha":"1fd50b82a","uuid":"ed35b213650525d1987c8106170001fd","features":["access-ready","partitioned","pluggable-storage-engines","reshard","scheduler"],"vendor":{"name":"The Apache Software Foundation"}}

Start with the weatherreport entry point and compare its behavior with and without the Erlang TLS distribution settings in vm.args. Review the node connection configuration in /etc/couchdb/newcert/couch_ssl_dist.conf and the documented TLS distribution setup. Done means weatherreport can connect to the local cluster node and produces the same checks without nodedown errors.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.