Couch soft crashes and restart fails to bind to port

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## Description

CouchDB service is running but has failed to bind to port even after restarting the service

## Steps to Reproduce

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install on Debian Buster, setup with standard dedicated database

## Expected Behaviour

Server to be active, bound to port and reporting well when I run status

## Your Environment

NGINX setup for front websites
the port is open, have used CouchDB web panel before
after possible crash or restart - software will not bind to port

this is the second time it has happened, last time it was fixed by resetting the admin password.

* CouchDB version used: 3.2.0
* Browser name and version: ANY
* Operating system and version: ANY

## Additional Context
I can't seem to get logging to log anything

output from console:

```

admin@server:/opt$ sudo netstat -tulpn | grep LISTEN
tcp 0 0 0.0.0.0:443 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN 5972/nginx: worker
tcp 0 0 0.0.0.0:22 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN 563/sshd
tcp6 0 0 :::2080 :::* LISTEN 6854/node
tcp6 0 0 :::4080 :::* LISTEN 6846/node
tcp6 0 0 :::22 :::* LISTEN 563/sshd

admin@server:~$ /etc/init.d/couchdb status
● couchdb.service - Apache CouchDB
Loaded: loaded (/lib/systemd/system/couchdb.service; enabled; vendor preset: enabled)
Active: active (running) since Sun 2022-03-13 04:51:12 UTC; 15ms ago
Main PID: 32309 (couchdb)
Tasks: 3 (limit: 2330)
Memory: 612.0K
CGroup: /system.slice/couchdb.service
├─32309 /bin/sh /opt/couchdb/bin/couchdb
├─32317 /bin/sh /opt/couchdb/bin/couchdb
└─32319 /bin/sh /opt/couchdb/bin/couchdb

admin@server:~$ curl http://127.0.0.1:5984/
curl: (7) Failed to connect to 127.0.0.1 port 5984: Connection refused
```

Start with the Debian couchdb.service status and the curl request to 127.0.0.1:5984 shown in the report, then inspect the service's available logging and startup output. Done means identifying why CouchDB reports as running without listening on port 5984 and documenting a reproducible fix for restart failures.

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