builtin service执行过程中coredump

**Describe the bug**
brpc服务运行过程中coredump，查看corefile，发现是builtin_service导致的

```bash
#0 0x00007fa87f448baf in raise () from /lib64/libpthread.so.0
#1 0x0000000002443790 in backward::SignalHandling::sig_handler (signo=6, info=0x7fa2fd69d0f0, _ctx=0x7fa2fd69cfc0)
at /data00/kernel/docker/dev-build-run/tcqa-table/build/vcpkg_installed/x64-linux/include/backward.hpp:4299
#2
#3 0x00007fa87d16852f in raise () from /lib64/libc.so.6
#4 0x00007fa87d13be65 in abort () from /lib64/libc.so.6
#5 0x000000000354ada7 in google::LogMessage::Fail ()
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/glog/src/v0.7.1-795557b621.clean/src/logging.cc:1953
#6 0x000000000354e2aa in google::LogMessageFatal::~LogMessageFatal (this=0x7fa2fd69df40, __in_chrg=)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/glog/src/v0.7.1-795557b621.clean/src/logging.cc:2645
#7 0x0000000002be4a82 in brpc::VersionedRefWithId::Dereference (this=0x7fa35a8bc800)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/versioned_ref_with_id.h:576
#8 0x0000000002d0f022 in brpc::DereferenceSocket (s=0x7fa35a8bc800)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/socket.cpp:2275
#9 0x0000000002b194fe in brpc::VersionedRefWithIdDeleter::operator() (this=0x7fa2fd69e390, m=0x7fa35a8bc800)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/socket_id.h:46
#10 0x0000000002b1a30a in std::unique_ptr >::~unique_ptr (
this=0x7fa2fd69e390, __in_chrg=) at /opt/rh/gcc-toolset-10/root/usr/include/c++/10/bits/unique_ptr.h:361
#11 0x0000000002d108e7 in brpc::Socket::DebugSocket (os=..., id=17179869742)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/socket.cpp:2565
#12 0x0000000002cfebe9 in brpc::SocketsService::default_method (this=0x7fa877946ae8, cntl_base=0x7fa362a69f00,
done=0x7fa1e9b1fe00) at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/builtin/sockets_service.cpp:46
#13 0x0000000002d60b88 in brpc::sockets::CallMethod (this=0x7fa877946ae8, method=0x7fa877b917e0, controller=0x7fa362a69f00,
request=0x7fa2eadb71a0, response=0x7fa266510040, done=0x7fa1e9b1fe00)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/x64-linux-dbg/brpc/builtin_service.pb.cc:3941
#14 0x0000000002be2714 in brpc::policy::ProcessHttpRequest (msg=0x7fa362a69c10)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/policy/http_rpc_protocol.cpp:1645
#15 0x0000000002b70e50 in brpc::ProcessInputMessage (void_arg=0x7fa362a69c10)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/input_messenger.cpp:177
#16 0x0000000002b70f45 in brpc::InputMessenger::InputMessageClosure::~InputMessageClosure (this=0x7fa2fd69ed80,
__in_chrg=) at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/input_messenger.cpp:213
#17 0x0000000002b71d33 in brpc::InputMessenger::OnNewMessages (m=0x7fa31eb04f40)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/input_messenger.cpp:399
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#18 0x0000000002d09c00 in brpc::Socket::ProcessEvent (arg=0x7fa31eb04f40)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/brpc/socket.cpp:1185
#19 0x0000000002b03967 in bthread::TaskGroup::task_runner (skip_remained=0)
at /root/vcpkg/buildtrees/brpc/src/1.11.0-fbf5526c8b.clean/src/bthread/task_group.cpp:305
#20 0x0000000002a999c1 in bthread_make_fcontext ()
#21 0x0000000000000000 in ?? ()
```

**Versions**
OS: rhel8.2
Compiler: gcc version 10.3.1 20210422 (Red Hat 10.3.1-1) (GCC)
brpc: 1.11.0
protobuf: 3.21.8

Start with src/brpc/builtin/sockets_service.cpp, then trace the DebugSocket call in src/brpc/socket.cpp through versioned_ref_with_id.h. Reproduce the builtin service request using the reported brpc 1.11.0 environment and determine why socket dereferencing reaches the fatal log. Done means the reported builtin service request no longer coredumps.

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