streaming模式，server发流，两个client收流，client报Connection reset by peer

**Describe the bug (描述bug)**
streaming模式下，server向client推流，message较大，每次StreamWrite 16M, 两个client同时发起echo调用，server同时向两个client推流，其中一个client会报错:
`I20230914 02:58:02.964776 24499 client.cpp:45] One message: size=16777216
I20230914 02:58:02.964805 24499 client.cpp:49] [144]Received from Stream=1: size = 16777216
I20230914 02:58:03.004117 24499 client.cpp:45] One message: size=16777216
I20230914 02:58:03.004145 24499 client.cpp:49] [145]Received from Stream=1: size = 16777216
W20230914 02:58:03.054648 24499 input_messenger.cpp:375] Fail to read from Socket{id=0 fd=3 addr=10.58.14.24:8001:41772} (0x563b04d4d1c0): Connection reset by peer [104]
I20230914 02:58:03.055034 24495 client.cpp:58] Stream=1 is closed`

server也会报错:
`I20230914 02:58:02.981964 31720 server.cpp:110] bthread=4294972162, send message to Stream=204, size=16777216
I20230914 02:58:03.007588 31725 server.cpp:110] bthread=4294978049, send message to Stream=408, size=16777216
I20230914 02:58:03.016865 31689 server.cpp:110] bthread=4294972162, send message to Stream=204, size=16777216
W20230914 02:58:03.054450 31714 input_messenger.cpp:375] Fail to read from Socket{id=306 fd=8 addr=10.58.14.28:41772:8001} (0x7fbe3c044dc0): Connection reset by peer [104]
W20230914 02:58:03.054462 31709 socket.cpp:1772] Fail to keep-write into Socket{id=306 fd=8 addr=10.58.14.28:41772:8001} (0x7fbe3c044dc0): Broken pipe [32]
I20230914 02:58:03.063979 31720 server.cpp:110] bthread=4294972162, send message to Stream=204, size=16777216
I20230914 02:58:03.088527 31703 server.cpp:110] bthread=4294972162, send message to Stream=204, size=16777216
I20230914 02:58:03.112658 31667 server.cpp:110] bthread=4294972162, send message to Stream=204, size=16777216
I20230914 02:58:03.138048 31714 server.cpp:110] bthread=4294972162, send message to Stream=204, size=16777216
W20230914 02:58:03.156893 31665 input_messenger.cpp:368] Socket{id=510 fd=9 addr=10.58.14.28:41848:8001} (0x7fbd60044dc0) was closed by remote side
I20230914 02:58:03.159297 31713 server.cpp:110] bthread=4294972162, send message to Stream=204, size=16777216`

**To Reproduce (复现方法)**
先启动server , 然后再同时启动两个client, 都是在容器中运行，server和client不在同一台机器，两个client在同一个机器不同的容器中

**Expected behavior (期望行为)**
两个client并发能像单个client一样，不出错。

**Versions (各种版本)**
OS: ubuntu:18.04 docker运行
Compiler: cmake 3.22.6 bazel 4.2.2
brpc: 1.6.0
protobuf: v3.19.1

**Additional context/screenshots (更多上下文/截图)**
错误信息:
server端:
client端:

Reproduce the issue with one server and two containerized clients, using concurrent streaming and 16 MiB StreamWrite calls. Start by tracing the reported failures in input_messenger.cpp and socket.cpp, alongside the client.cpp and server.cpp streaming logs. Done means both clients can receive the stream concurrently without connection resets or broken pipes.

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