Not enough non-faulty bookies available when sending a message that exceeds defaultMaxMessageSize

**BUG REPORT**

Link the issue to: https://github.com/apache/pulsar/issues/4525

***Describe the bug***

All configurations are the default configuration.

After starting, send a message that exceeds defaultMaxMessageSize, pulsar's broker is unavailable.

***To Reproduce***

test code of go:

```
func main() {
client, err := pulsar.NewClient(pulsar.ClientOptions{
URL: "pulsar://localhost:6650",
IOThreads: 5,
})

if err != nil {
log.Fatal(err)
}

defer client.Close()

producer, err := client.CreateProducer(pulsar.ProducerOptions{
Topic: "my-topic",
CompressionType: pulsar.NoCompression,
Batching: false,
})
if err != nil {
log.Fatal(err)
}

defer producer.Close()

ctx := context.Background()
buf := make([]byte, 10*1024*1024)
arrays := [1024*1024*5]byte{}
buf = arrays[:]
fmt.Printf("the buf length is:[%d]\n", len(buf))

producer.SendAsync(ctx, pulsar.ProducerMessage{
Payload: buf,
}, func(producerMessage pulsar.ProducerMessage, e error) {
fmt.Printf("send complete. err=%v,\n", e)
})
}
```

broker error as follows:

```
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.PendingAddOp - Failed to write entry (7213, 0): Bookie handle is not available
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl - Failed to find 1 bookies : excludeBookies [], allBookies [].
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl - Failed to choose a bookie: excluded [], fallback to choose bookie randomly from the cluster.
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl - Failed to find 1 bookies : excludeBookies [], allBookies [].
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl - Failed to find 1 bookies : excludeBookies [], allBookies [].
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl - Failed to choose a bookie: excluded [], fallback to choose bookie randomly from the cluster.
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl - Failed to find 1 bookies : excludeBookies [], allBookies [].
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] ERROR org.apache.bookkeeper.client.MetadataUpdateLoop - UpdateLoop(ledgerId=7213,loopId=3f741063) Exception updating
org.apache.bookkeeper.client.BKException$BKNotEnoughBookiesException: Not enough non-faulty bookies available
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.selectRandomInternal(RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.java:989) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.selectRandom(RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.java:907) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.selectFromNetworkLocation(RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.java:797) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicy.selectFromNetworkLocation(RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicy.java:200) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.selectFromNetworkLocation(RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.java:757) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicy.selectFromNetworkLocation(RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicy.java:221) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.replaceBookie(RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicyImpl.java:659) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicy.replaceBookie(RackawareEnsemblePlacementPolicy.java:114) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.BookieWatcherImpl.replaceBookie(BookieWatcherImpl.java:295) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.EnsembleUtils.replaceBookiesInEnsemble(EnsembleUtils.java:71) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.LedgerHandle.lambda$ensembleChangeLoop$2(LedgerHandle.java:1908) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.MetadataUpdateLoop.writeLoop(MetadataUpdateLoop.java:122) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.MetadataUpdateLoop.run(MetadataUpdateLoop.java:111) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.LedgerHandle.ensembleChangeLoop(LedgerHandle.java:1927) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.LedgerHandle.handleBookieFailure(LedgerHandle.java:1876) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.client.PendingAddOp.writeComplete(PendingAddOp.java:360) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.proto.PerChannelBookieClient$AddCompletion.writeComplete(PerChannelBookieClient.java:2028) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.proto.PerChannelBookieClient$AddCompletion.lambda$errorOut$0(PerChannelBookieClient.java:2051) ~[bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.proto.PerChannelBookieClient$CompletionValue$1.safeRun(PerChannelBookieClient.java:1606) [bookkeeper-server-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at org.apache.bookkeeper.common.util.SafeRunnable.run(SafeRunnable.java:36) [bookkeeper-common-4.9.2.jar:4.9.2]
at java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor.runWorker(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:1149) [?:1.8.0_201]
at java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:624) [?:1.8.0_201]
at io.netty.util.concurrent.FastThreadLocalRunnable.run(FastThreadLocalRunnable.java:30) [netty-all-4.1.32.Final.jar:4.1.32.Final]
at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:748) [?:1.8.0_201]
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.PendingAddOp - Failed to write entry (7213, 1): Bookie handle is not available
16:37:42.874 [BookKeeperClientWorker-OrderedExecutor-1-0] WARN org.apache.bookkeeper.client.LedgerHandle - [EnsembleChange(ledger:7213, change-id:0000000001)][attempt:1] Exception changing ensemble
```

***Expected behavior***

When I send a message that exceeds the maximum message allowed by pulsar, I expect pulsar's broker to fail the message instead of causing the entire broker to be unavailable.

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