[Python] Enable multi-threaded reads of struct-list stored data in parquet files

### Describe the enhancement requested

We recently discovered that nested data structures within parquet files, such as struct of lists, do not benefit from multi-threading enabled by default in pyarrow's parquet reader. However, if these are instead represented by a top-level data structure list a set of list fields, then the multi-threading works as expected. It would be nice, if possible, to enable multi-threading within nested structures that contain multiple fields. Here's a few code snippets/screenshots for context and reproducibility:

File Generation:

```
# Code block to generate needed parquet files
from nested_pandas.datasets import generate_data

# Generate a parquet dataset with struct-list format
nf = generate_data(100,2000, seed=1)[["nested"]]
nf.to_parquet("nested_parquet.parquet")

# Generate a parquet dataset with list-array format
nf["nested"].to_lists().to_parquet("list_parquet.parquet")
```

Versioning & Storage Context
```
import pyarrow as pa
pa.__version__
> '22.0.0'

# struct of lists storage as read by pyarrow
pa.parquet.read_table("nested_parquet.parquet").field("nested")
> pyarrow.Field, flux: list, band: list>>

# list storage as read by pyarrow
pa.parquet.read_table("list_parquet.parquet").field("t")
> pyarrow.Field>
```

Single-Thread Timings:

Multi-Thread Timings:

We see that multi-threading improves the read speed for list-arrays, but not for struct-list formatted data.

### Component(s)

Parquet