[R] Caught segfault on benchmark run for TPCH query 21 (scale factor 10)

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

From the performance report for #40197, apparently we get:

```
' *** caught segfault ***', "address 0x3d, cause 'memory not mapped'", '', 'Traceback:', ' 1: RecordBatchReader__UnsafeDelete(self)', ' 2: reader$.unsafe_delete()', ' 3: as_arrow_table.arrow_dplyr_query(x)',
```

for the job:

```
engine=arrow, format=parquet, language=R, memory_map=False, query_id=TPCH-21, scale_factor=10
```

`RecordBatchReader__UnsafeDelete()` is something I added but I would have to re-look into its use to ensure it is not getting called twice...I believe it was introduced to ensure that open files were closed promptly since this caused problems on Windows.

Also, huge regression last July:

https://conbench.ursa.dev/benchmark-results/065d8d9e6ab17d1e8000cb6422edfa64/

Full dump:

```
['', ' *** caught segfault ***', "address 0x3d, cause 'memory not mapped'", '', 'Traceback:', ' 1: RecordBatchReader__UnsafeDelete(self)', ' 2: reader$.unsafe_delete()', ' 3: as_arrow_table.arrow_dplyr_query(x)', ' 4: as_arrow_table(x)', ' 5: doTryCatch(return(expr), name, parentenv, handler)', ' 6: tryCatchOne(expr, names, parentenv, handlers[[1L]])', ' 7: tryCatchList(expr, classes, parentenv, handlers)', ' 8: tryCatch(as_arrow_table(x), error = function(e, call = caller_env(n = 4)) { augment_io_error_msg(e, call, schema = schema())})', ' 9: compute.arrow_dplyr_query(x)', '10: collect.arrow_dplyr_query(.)', '11: collect_func(.)', '12: input_func("supplier") %>% inner_join(line_items, by = c(s_suppkey = "l_suppkey")) %>% filter(l_receiptdate > l_commitdate) %>% inner_join(input_func("nation"), by = c(s_nationkey = "n_nationkey")) %>% filter(n_name == "SAUDI ARABIA") %>% group_by(s_name) %>% summarise(numwait = n()) %>% ungroup() %>% arrange(desc(numwait), s_name) %>% head(100) %>% collect_func()', '13: query(input_func, collect_func, con)', '14: eval(bm$run, envir = ctx)', '15: eval(bm$run, envir = ctx)', '16: eval(expr, p)', '17: eval.parent(...)', '18: as_bench_time(.Call(system_time_, substitute(expr), parent.frame()))', '19: stats::setNames(as_bench_time(.Call(system_time_, substitute(expr), parent.frame())), c("process", "real"))', '20: bench::bench_time(eval.parent(...))', '21: eval(expr, p)', '22: eval.parent(expr)', '23: with_profiling(profiling, { timings <- bench::bench_time(eval.parent(...))})', '24: force(expr)', '25: with_gc_info({ prof_file <- with_profiling(profiling, { timings <- bench::bench_time(eval.parent(...)) })})', '26: measure(eval(bm$run, envir = ctx), profiling = profiling, drop_caches = drop_caches)', '27: run_iteration(bm = bm, ctx = ctx, profiling = profiling, drop_caches = global_params[["drop_caches"]])', '28: withCallingHandlers({ results[[i]] <- run_iteration(bm = bm, ctx = ctx, profiling = profiling, drop_caches = global_params[["drop_caches"]])}, warning = function(w) { warnings <<- c(warnings, list(list(warning = as.character(w), stack_trace = vapply(traceback(3), function(x) paste(x, collapse = "\\n"), character(1)))))})', '29: doTryCatch(return(expr), name, parentenv, handler)', '30: tryCatchOne(expr, names, parentenv, handlers[[1L]])', '31: tryCatchList(expr, classes, parentenv, handlers)', '32: tryCatch(withCallingHandlers({ results[[i]] <- run_iteration(bm = bm, ctx = ctx, profiling = profiling, drop_caches = global_params[["drop_caches"]])}, warning = function(w) { warnings <<- c(warnings, list(list(warning = as.character(w), stack_trace = vapply(traceback(3), function(x) paste(x, collapse = "\\n"), character(1)))))}), error = function(e) { error <<- list(error = as.character(e), stack_trace = vapply(traceback(3), function(x) paste(x, collapse = "\\n"), character(1)))})', '33: run_bm(format = "parquet", scale_factor = 10, engine = "arrow", memory_map = FALSE, query_id = 21, bm = structure(list(name = "tpch", setup = function(engine = "arrow", query_id = 1:22, format = c("native", "parquet"), scale_factor = c(1, 10), memory_map = FALSE, output = "data_frame", chunk_size = NULL) { engine <- match.arg(engine, c("arrow", "duckdb", "duckdb_sql", "dplyr")) format <- match.arg(format, c("parquet", "feather", "native")) stopifnot(`query_id must be an int` = query_id%%1 == 0, `query_id must 1-22` = query_id >= 1 & query_id <= 22) output <- match.arg(output, c("arrow_table", "data_frame")) library("dplyr", warn.conflicts = FALSE) collect_func <- collect if (output == "data_frame") { collect_func <- collect } else if (output == "arrow_table") { collect_func <- compute } con <- NULL if (engine %in% c("duckdb", "duckdb_sql")) { con <- DBI::dbConnect(duckdb::duckdb()) DBI::dbExecute(con, paste0("PRAGMA threads=", getOption("Ncpus"))) } BenchEnvironment(input_func = get_input_func(engine = engine, scale_factor = scale_factor, query_id = query_id, format = format, con = con, memory_map = memory_map, chunk_size = chunk_size), query = get_query_func(query_id, engine), engine = engine, con = con, scale_factor = scale_factor, query_id = query_id, collect_func = collect_func) }, before_each = quote({ result <- NULL }), run = quote({ result <- query(input_func, collect_func, con) }), after_each = quote({ if (scale_factor %in% c(0.01, 0.1, 1, 10)) { answer <- tpch_answer(scale_factor, query_id) result <- dplyr::as_tibble(result) all_equal_out <- waldo::compare(result, answer, tolerance = 0.01) if (length(all_equal_out) != 0) { warning(paste0("\\n", all_equal_out, "\\n")) stop("The answer does not match") } } else { warning("There is no validation for scale_factors other than 0.01, 0.1, 1, and 10. Be careful with these results!") } result <- NULL }), teardown = quote({ if (!is.null(con)) { DBI::dbDisconnect(con, shutdown = TRUE) } }), valid_params = function(params) { drop <- (params$engine != "arrow" & params$format == "feather") | (params$engine != "arrow" & params$output == "arrow_table") | (params$engine != "arrow" & params$memory_map == TRUE) | (params$engine == "dplyr" & params$format == "native") params[!drop, ] }, case_version = function(params) NULL, batch_id_fun = function(params) { batch_id <- uuid() paste0(batch_id, "-", params$scale_factor, substr(params$format, 1, 1)) }, tags_fun = function(params) { params$query_id <- sprintf("TPCH-%02d", params$query_id) if (!is.null(params$output) && params$output == "data_frame") { params$output <- NULL } params }, packages_used = function(params) { c(params$engine, "dplyr", "lubridate") }), class = "Benchmark"), n_iter = 1, batch_id = NULL, profiling = FALSE, global_params = list(cpu_count = NULL, lib_path = "latest"), run_id = NULL, run_name = NULL, run_reason = NULL)', 'An irrecoverable exception occurred. R is aborting now ...', 'Segmentation fault (core dumped)']
```

### Component(s)

R