[R] Error passing data to/from DuckDB - "NotImplemented: Call to R (SafeRecordBatchReader::ReadNext()) from a non-R thread from an unsupported context"

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

I'm testing out some code for a workshop on a fresh install (all packages just downloaded, Arrow built from source from 13.0.0 release candidate 3 branch) and get the following error:

```{r}
library(dplyr)
devtools::load_all("~/arrow/r")

# data downloaded from the Voltron Daat S3 bucket
nyc_taxi <- open_dataset(here::here("data/nyc-taxi/year=2019/"))
nyc_taxi %>%
filter(month == 1) %>%
to_duckdb() %>%
mutate(mean_distance = mean(trip_distance)) %>%
to_arrow() %>%
filter(trip_distance < mean_distance) %>%
nrow()

Error: NotImplemented: Call to R (SafeRecordBatchReader::ReadNext()) from a non-R thread from an unsupported context
/home/nic/arrow/cpp/src/arrow/record_batch.h:257 ReadNext(&batch)
```

sessionInfo() output:

```
> sessionInfo()
R version 4.2.2 Patched (2022-11-10 r83330)
Platform: x86_64-pc-linux-gnu (64-bit)
Running under: Ubuntu 23.04

Matrix products: default
BLAS: /usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/blas/libblas.so.3.11.0
LAPACK: /usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/lapack/liblapack.so.3.11.0

locale:
[1] LC_CTYPE=en_US.UTF-8 LC_NUMERIC=C LC_TIME=en_US.UTF-8 LC_COLLATE=C
[5] LC_MONETARY=en_US.UTF-8 LC_MESSAGES=en_US.UTF-8 LC_PAPER=en_US.UTF-8 LC_NAME=C
[9] LC_ADDRESS=C LC_TELEPHONE=C LC_MEASUREMENT=en_US.UTF-8 LC_IDENTIFICATION=C

attached base packages:
[1] stats graphics grDevices utils datasets methods base

other attached packages:
[1] duckdb_0.8.1-1 DBI_1.1.3 arrow_13.0.0 tictoc_1.2 testthat_3.1.10 dplyr_1.1.2

loaded via a namespace (and not attached):
[1] tidyselect_1.2.0 remotes_2.4.2.1 purrr_1.0.2 vctrs_0.6.3 generics_0.1.3 miniUI_0.1.1.1 htmltools_0.5.6
[8] usethis_2.2.2 blob_1.2.4 utf8_1.2.3 rlang_1.1.1 pkgbuild_1.4.2 later_1.3.1 pillar_1.9.0
[15] urlchecker_1.0.1 glue_1.6.2 withr_2.5.0 dbplyr_2.3.3 bit64_4.0.5 sessioninfo_1.2.2 lifecycle_1.0.3
[22] stringr_1.5.0 devtools_2.4.5 htmlwidgets_1.6.2 memoise_2.0.1 callr_3.7.3 fastmap_1.1.1 httpuv_1.6.11
[29] ps_1.7.5 fansi_1.0.4 Rcpp_1.0.11 xtable_1.8-4 promises_1.2.1 cachem_1.0.8 desc_1.4.2
[36] pkgload_1.3.2.1 mime_0.12 fs_1.6.3 bit_4.0.5 brio_1.1.3 digest_0.6.33 stringi_1.7.12
[43] processx_3.8.2 shiny_1.7.4.1 rprojroot_2.0.3 here_1.0.1 cli_3.6.1 tools_4.2.2 magrittr_2.0.3
[50] tibble_3.2.1 profvis_0.3.8 crayon_1.5.2 pkgconfig_2.0.3 ellipsis_0.3.2 prettyunits_1.1.1 timechange_0.2.0
[57] lubridate_1.9.2 assertthat_0.2.1 rstudioapi_0.15.0 R6_2.5.1 compiler_4.2.2
```

### Component(s)

R