[Python] Add `exclude_invalid_files` to `ParquetDataset`

### Describe the enhancement requested

Add a `exclude_invalid_files` parameter to `ParquetDataset`.

I want to read Parquet files from a bucket that contains a JSON metadata file. Because `ParquetDataset` doesn't expose `exclude_invalid_files`, I get an error:

```
File "/Users/balaji/Documents/GitHub/ray/python/ray/data/datasource/parquet_datasource.py", line 204, in __init__
pq_ds = pq.ParquetDataset(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/Users/balaji/Documents/GitHub/ray/.venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pyarrow/parquet/core.py", line 1776, in __new__
return _ParquetDatasetV2(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/Users/balaji/Documents/GitHub/ray/.venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pyarrow/parquet/core.py", line 2490, in __init__
self._dataset = ds.dataset(path_or_paths, filesystem=filesystem,
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/Users/balaji/Documents/GitHub/ray/.venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pyarrow/dataset.py", line 763, in dataset
return _filesystem_dataset(source, **kwargs)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/Users/balaji/Documents/GitHub/ray/.venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pyarrow/dataset.py", line 456, in _filesystem_dataset
return factory.finish(schema)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "pyarrow/_dataset.pyx", line 2752, in pyarrow._dataset.DatasetFactory.finish
File "pyarrow/error.pxi", line 144, in pyarrow.lib.pyarrow_internal_check_status
File "pyarrow/error.pxi", line 100, in pyarrow.lib.check_status
pyarrow.lib.ArrowInvalid: Error creating dataset. Could not read schema from 'ray-example-data/iris.json'. Is this a 'parquet' file?: Could not open Parquet input source 'ray-example-data/iris.json': Parquet magic bytes not found in footer. Either the file is corrupted or this is not a parquet file.
```

This issue is motivated by https://github.com/ray-project/ray/issues/36753.

### Component(s)

Python

Start with the ParquetDataset constructor referenced in pyarrow/parquet/core.py and compare it with the call site in ray/data/datasource/parquet_datasource.py. Add the requested option so JSON files can be ignored when reading a bucket, and verify that the reported ArrowInvalid case is covered by the relevant Python tests.

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