[R] The R development documentation nightly fails to load Arrow

### Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

We've got a DLL loading error when loading the arrow package on Ubuntu in the development documentation nightly: https://github.com/ursacomputing/crossbow/actions/runs/4020387995/jobs/6908263935#step:10:39

```
> Sys.getenv("LD_LIBRARY_PATH")
[1] "/opt/R/4.1.3/lib/R/lib:/usr/local/lib:/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu:/usr/lib/jvm/temurin-11-jdk-amd64/lib/server:/home/runner/work/crossbow/crossbow/dist/lib:/home/runner/work/crossbow/crossbow/dist/lib:"
> library(arrow)
Error: Error: package or namespace load failed for ‘arrow’ in dyn.load(file, DLLpath = DLLpath, ...):
unable to load shared object '/home/runner/work/_temp/Library/arrow/libs/arrow.so':
/home/runner/work/crossbow/crossbow/dist/lib/libparquet.so.1100: undefined symbol: _ZN5arrow6Status14AddContextLineEPKciS2_
Execution halted
Error: Process completed with exit code 1.
```

### Component(s)

R

Start with the linked crossbow GitHub Actions job at step 10:39 and inspect the Ubuntu R development documentation nightly environment, including LD_LIBRARY_PATH. Reproduce the arrow package load failure and trace the conflicting libparquet.so and arrow symbols; done means the nightly can load arrow without the undefined-symbol error.

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