[C++] replace_with_mask support missing for list/fixed_size_list/large_list/struct

The replace_with_mask kernel should work for any value type. However, support is currently missing for:

- list
- fixed_size_list
- large_list
- struct

**Reporter**: [Weston Pace](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-13951) / @westonpace
#### Related issues:
- [[C++] Improve type support for 'replace_with_mask' kernel](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/29759) (is duplicated by)
- [[C++] Reconcile type promotion rules between if_else, case_when, coalesce, select](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/29696) (relates to)
- [[C++] Improve type support for 'coalesce' kernel](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/29061) (relates to)

_{**Note**: *This issue was originally created as [ARROW-13951](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-13951). Please see the [migration documentation](https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/14542) for further details.*}

Start by locating the C++ replace_with_mask kernel and its existing type-support tests. Trace how list, fixed_size_list, large_list, and struct values are handled, then verify that the kernel works for each listed value type and that the relevant tests pass.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.