Collect filter selectivity

**Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.**
I would like to collect stats on how selective my filters are for databasey reasons.

**Describe the solution you'd like**
Something like this: https://github.com/coralogix/arrow-rs/blob/53eb05b142df31dfb89b02194f09d78f3f467ca2/parquet/src/arrow/arrow_reader/mod.rs#L640

**Describe alternatives you've considered**
I am open to other options

**Additional context**

Start by reading the linked parquet arrow_reader implementation to understand the selectivity statistics being requested. Then determine the intended API and measurement semantics for arrow-rs; the work is done when a documented approach and agreed validation are available for collecting filter selectivity.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.