Use optimized implementation of bloom filter

Hey!

I implemented https://github.com/ozgrakkurt/sbbf-rs.

It is an implementation of parquet bloom filters, I checked it against the implementation at `parquet2` and it produces same output.

I would like to integrate it here if it makes sense to do.

A big problem with it may be that it has different implementations including a `aarch64::neon` which wouldn't get tested on GitHub CI.

Start by reviewing the existing Parquet bloom-filter implementation in arrow-rs and compare it with the proposed sbbf-rs implementation and its parquet2 output. Assess the aarch64::neon testing concern; done means the project has a decided integration path with appropriate platform coverage.

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