[FlightSQL] Add Builder for configuring options on flight sql client

As suggested by @viirya in https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/pull/3207#discussion_r1043830597

> I think we may come with a option struct and have these as default values. And users can specify them if needed.

The basic idea would be that the `FlightSqlServiceClient` would take a options struct. Now they are hard coded

```rust
let options = FlightSqlOptions::new();
let client = FlightSqlServiceClient::try_new(options).await?
```

Start by locating FlightSqlServiceClient and its try_new entry point, then inspect how the client’s options are currently hard coded. Define the scope of the FlightSqlOptions API and its defaults from the existing behavior. Done means the client accepts configurable options while preserving those defaults.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.