Add gRPC reflection support to arrow flight

**Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.**

We like to use the gRPC service reflection, via `grpcurl --plaintext localhost:8082 list`, to list gRPC services in IOx

We have a flight based service that does not appear in the service list (see https://github.com/influxdata/influxdb_iox/issues/4543)

I think this is because the arrow-flight library doesn't create the appropriate gRPC descriptors.

**Describe the solution you'd like**
Whatever is needed so that https://crates.io/crates/tonic-reflection can be used to provide reflection services to arrow-flight

@tustvold suggests:

I think we would likely need to make the generated descriptor set available as a constant within the produced binary, so that it can be passed to the reflection https://docs.rs/tonic-reflection/0.4.0/tonic_reflection/server/struct.Builder.html.

Effectively all gRPC reflection is, is a service that returns the compiled descriptor sets, which in turn are just a parsed version of the proto files, represented as protobuf - https://github.com/protocolbuffers/protobuf/blob/main/src/google/protobuf/descriptor.proto

**Additional context**
Here is an attempt (that didn't work): https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/pull/1686

Start by reviewing the failed attempt in apache/arrow-rs#1686 and the Arrow Flight generated descriptor path. Check how the generated descriptor set could be made available to tonic-reflection, then verify the result with grpcurl --plaintext localhost:8082 list. Done means the Arrow Flight services appear in the reflection service list.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.