[Parquet] Support configurable ALP vector lengths

### Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

The Parquet ALP specification permits `log_vector_size` values from 3 through 15, but arrow-rs currently writes only the recommended default size of 1024 values.

This prevents testing or selecting other vector sizes permitted by the format.

This depends on #9372 and should be worked on after that PR is merged.

### Describe the solution you would like

Add an ALP writer configuration for selecting any vector size permitted by the Parquet specification.

The existing default should remain 1024 values.

Review dependency #9372 first, then inspect the existing ALP writer configuration and how it uses the default vector size. Confirm the writer accepts the Parquet-permitted log_vector_size range of 3 through 15, preserves the 1024-value default, and supports selecting another permitted size.

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