Add ObjectStore::list_opts

**Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.**

We should add an ObjectStore::list_opts to allow

* Specifying both a start offset and delimiter apache/arrow-rs-object-store#291
* Providing `Extensions` apache/arrow-rs#7213

**Describe the solution you'd like**

I _think_ the following API should work and eventually allow providing default implementations of `list` and `list_with_delimiter` that call through to `list_opts`

```
struct ListOptions {
pub offset: Option,
pub delimiter: bool,
pub extensions: Extensions
}

fn list_opts(&self, opts: ListOptions) -> BoxStream<'static, Result>
```

**Describe alternatives you've considered**

We could expose an API that more explicitly exposes the paginated nature of the underlying APIs, however, such APIs are quite cumbersome to use, and wouldn't obviously translate to LocalFileSystem.

**Additional context**

Start by locating the ObjectStore trait and its existing list and list_with_delimiter APIs, then review the context in apache/arrow-rs-object-store#291 and apache/arrow-rs#7213. Done means the proposed ListOptions and list_opts API are integrated with the requested offset, delimiter, and Extensions inputs, with the existing listing behavior accounted for.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.