object_store: Support for streaming body in `put/put_opts`

**Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.**

Currently, `put/put_opts` takes a `PutPayload` which is just a wrapper around an array of `Bytes`. It would be useful (for us) to be able to stream the body without having to do a multipart upload.

**Describe the solution you'd like**

The underlying http library `reqwest` already supports this. So I think we can change the definition of `PutPayload` to an enum like so:

```
type StreamingBody = Box>> + Send + 'static>;

pub enum PutPayload {
Bytes(Arc<[Bytes]>),
Streaming(StreamingBody,usize),
}
```

where `PutPayload::Streaming` holds the stream and the total content length (which must be known ahead of time).

The (unfortunate) requirement of the S3 API to know the `content-length` up front means this isn't fully general but can be useful in certain situations such as buffering a largeish file on disk before uploading. In that case, a streaming body would allow the upload to not have to load the entire object in memory to upload it.

**Describe alternatives you've considered**

This can already be done with `put_multipart` but mutli-part upload is complicated, may have some performance implications for reads.

**Additional context**

Start at the object_store put/put_opts entry points and the PutPayload definition, then trace how payloads reach the underlying reqwest request. Compare this with put_multipart and verify the existing upload tests or add coverage for a known-length streaming body; done means streaming uploads work without buffering the entire object and existing byte uploads remain supported.

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