Support psycopg2-binary or psycopg (3)

**Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.**
The sub-requirement of apache/age (python) is psycopg2 which needs the postgresql library to be build....
However in a CI/CD context, with a bare minimal python image, one has to install it.
It's not a problem but there exists some simpler solution like using psycopg2-binary (which already comes with postgresql library) or using the more modern psycopg3 (and it's binary flag)

**Describe the solution you'd like**
Bump the dependency to use a binary version to ease installation of age.

**Describe alternatives you've considered**
Install postgresql library myself

**Additional context**
Thanks for this nice postgresql extension and it's drivers ! :D