🐛[BUG] ProFormList 使用自定义ref FormListActionType 没办法触发 onAfterAdd onAfterRemove beforeRemoveRow

### 🐛 bug 描述

如同标题，使用自定义的ref没办法触发onAfterAdd和onAfterRemove, 和 beforeRemoveRow

### 📷 复现步骤
```
const llmListRef = useRef>();

{
console.log('onAfterAdd')
}}
onAfterRemove={()=> {
console.log('onAfterRemove')
}}
actionGuard={{
beforeAddRow: async () => {
console.log('beforeAddRow')
return true
},
beforeRemoveRow: async () => {
console.log('beforeRemoveRow')
return true
}
}}
itemRender={({listDom}, listMeta) =>

}
onClick={() => {
const copied = llmListRef.current?.get(listMeta.index);
const duplicated: Partial = {
id: randomUUID(),
llm_pn: copied!.llm_pn,
llm_desc: copied!.llm_desc,
unit_cost: copied!.unit_cost,
llm_qty: copied!.llm_qty,
}
llmListRef.current?.add(duplicated, listMeta.index + 1)
}}
/>
}
onClick={() => {
llmListRef.current?.remove(listMeta.index)
}}
/>
}
style={{marginBlockEnd: 8}}
size={'small'}
>
{listDom}

}
creatorRecord={{
id: randomUUID(),
[LLMCostDetailProps.unit_cost]: 0,
[LLMCostDetailProps.llm_qty]: 1,
}}
>
```

### 🏞 期望结果

希望可以正常触发 onAfterAdd onAfterRemove beforeRemoveRow

### © 版本信息

"@ant-design/pro-components": "^2.8.2",
"antd": "^5.22.3",

Start at the ProFormList actionRef API and reproduce the example with a custom FormListActionType ref. Trace the add and remove entry points and verify that onAfterAdd, onAfterRemove, and beforeRemoveRow fire when those operations are invoked through the ref.

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