🐛[BUG] DragSortTable layout flicker when using in explanable table

提问前先看看：

https://github.com/ryanhanwu/How-To-Ask-Questions-The-Smart-Way/blob/main/README-zh_CN.md

### 🐛 bug 描述

when create or take any action to make DragSortTable component re-render it alway filking a bit. so I was try to change DragSortTable to normal ProTable, it work normally but when I change back it start flicking again.

### 📷 复现步骤

https://github.com/ant-design/pro-components/assets/50583924/5033a1fd-c4d1-4b96-bbed-47bf0af271bc

### 🏞 期望结果

[code sand box](https://codesandbox.io/p/sandbox/friendly-beaver-yhpghx?file=%2FApp.tsx%3A4%2C36&layout=%257B%2522sidebarPanel%2522%253A%2522EXPLORER%2522%252C%2522rootPanelGroup%2522%253A%257B%2522direction%2522%253A%2522horizontal%2522%252C%2522contentType%2522%253A%2522UNKNOWN%2522%252C%2522type%2522%253A%2522PANEL_GROUP%2522%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522ROOT_LAYOUT%2522%252C%2522panels%2522%253A%255B%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PANEL_GROUP%2522%252C%2522contentType%2522%253A%2522UNKNOWN%2522%252C%2522direction%2522%253A%2522vertical%2522%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00062v6jieh1gxv3%2522%252C%2522sizes%2522%253A%255B100%252C0%255D%252C%2522panels%2522%253A%255B%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PANEL_GROUP%2522%252C%2522contentType%2522%253A%2522EDITOR%2522%252C%2522direction%2522%253A%2522horizontal%2522%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522EDITOR%2522%252C%2522panels%2522%253A%255B%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PANEL%2522%252C%2522contentType%2522%253A%2522EDITOR%2522%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00022v6j52zv8o9r%2522%257D%255D%257D%252C%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PANEL_GROUP%2522%252C%2522contentType%2522%253A%2522SHELLS%2522%252C%2522direction%2522%253A%2522horizontal%2522%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522SHELLS%2522%252C%2522panels%2522%253A%255B%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PANEL%2522%252C%2522contentType%2522%253A%2522SHELLS%2522%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00032v6jspvloq4m%2522%257D%255D%252C%2522sizes%2522%253A%255B100%255D%257D%255D%257D%252C%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PANEL_GROUP%2522%252C%2522contentType%2522%253A%2522DEVTOOLS%2522%252C%2522direction%2522%253A%2522vertical%2522%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522DEVTOOLS%2522%252C%2522panels%2522%253A%255B%257B%2522type%2522%253A%2522PANEL%2522%252C%2522contentType%2522%253A%2522DEVTOOLS%2522%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00052v6j7ly3i2f3%2522%257D%255D%252C%2522sizes%2522%253A%255B100%255D%257D%255D%252C%2522sizes%2522%253A%255B50%252C50%255D%257D%252C%2522tabbedPanels%2522%253A%257B%2522cltrmc7vq00022v6j52zv8o9r%2522%253A%257B%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00022v6j52zv8o9r%2522%252C%2522tabs%2522%253A%255B%257B%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrme3fq005v2v6jkdrrudse%2522%252C%2522mode%2522%253A%2522permanent%2522%252C%2522type%2522%253A%2522FILE%2522%252C%2522initialSelections%2522%253A%255B%257B%2522startLineNumber%2522%253A4%252C%2522startColumn%2522%253A36%252C%2522endLineNumber%2522%253A4%252C%2522endColumn%2522%253A36%257D%255D%252C%2522filepath%2522%253A%2522%252FApp.tsx%2522%252C%2522state%2522%253A%2522IDLE%2522%257D%255D%252C%2522activeTabId%2522%253A%2522cltrme3fq005v2v6jkdrrudse%2522%257D%252C%2522cltrmc7vq00052v6j7ly3i2f3%2522%253A%257B%2522tabs%2522%253A%255B%257B%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00042v6jcwk142pg%2522%252C%2522mode%2522%253A%2522permanent%2522%252C%2522type%2522%253A%2522UNASSIGNED_PORT%2522%252C%2522port%2522%253A0%252C%2522path%2522%253A%2522%252F%2522%257D%255D%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00052v6j7ly3i2f3%2522%252C%2522activeTabId%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00042v6jcwk142pg%2522%257D%252C%2522cltrmc7vq00032v6jspvloq4m%2522%253A%257B%2522tabs%2522%253A%255B%255D%252C%2522id%2522%253A%2522cltrmc7vq00032v6jspvloq4m%2522%257D%257D%252C%2522showDevtools%2522%253Atrue%252C%2522showShells%2522%253Afalse%252C%2522showSidebar%2522%253Atrue%252C%2522sidebarPanelSize%2522%253A15%257D)

### 💻 复现代码

### © 版本信息

- ProComponents 版本: [e.g. 4.0.0] 2.6.49
- NextJS
- chrome lastest version
- 开发环境 [e.g. mac OS] ubuntu

### 🚑 其他信息

Start with the linked CodeSandbox and its App.tsx example to reproduce the flicker when DragSortTable is rendered inside an expandable table. Compare the behavior after actions that trigger re-rendering with the normal ProTable behavior. Done means the DragSortTable layout remains stable without visible flicker in the provided reproduction.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.