bug(CHIPS): chip-listbox is setting formControl as undefined after unselection - inconsistency with .setValue(null)

### Description

### Inconsistent behaviour between chip unselection vs. unselecting the chip by setting null value as formControl

When I want to programatically unselect a chip within a formGroup I can not setValue(undefined) only setValue(null).
I find that the behaviour is inconsistent and I understand why the initial value is undefined in case nothing was put onto the component. But after unselection I think it would be more rational to have it set up as null. Or preferably having null always as a default value within formGroup.

- I find this behaviour inconsistent and in case that I need to programatically unselect chipbox, then I need to map the final undefined value to null to have it correctly set in my project

### Reproduction

[StackBlitz link: ](https://stackblitz.com/edit/components-issue-starter-wrxvkjqq?file=src%2Fmain.ts)
Steps to reproduce:
1. Select one of the three chips, for example 'Large'
2. Click on the button set as null
3. This works as expected, and the chips has value null.
4. Try to click on Large again
5. Unselect the selection by clicking on 'Large' again

You receive undefined

### Expected Behavior

Expected behaviour is to have either always undefined or null, or be able to set undefined programatically.
But preferably null over undefined

### Actual Behavior

Inconsistent behaviour between `myControl.setValue(null) ` - which is unselecting chip from the component
And the actual clicking on the selected chip which it makes unselected but automatically set value as undefined

### Environment

- Angular:
- CDK/Material:
- Browser(s):
- Operating System (e.g. Windows, macOS, Ubuntu):

Start with the linked StackBlitz reproduction and compare chip-listbox form-control values after calling setValue(null) and after clicking the selected chip to unselect it. Done means the component consistently uses the agreed null or undefined value in both paths.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.