bug(MatMenu): Menu item with menuTrigger combine with menu item in sub component does not clos sub menu

### Is this a regression?

- [ ] Yes, this behavior used to work in the previous version

### The previous version in which this bug was not present was

_No response_

### Description


A mat-menu, using a `mat-menu-item` with a `matMenuTriggerFor` next to a menu-item in a sub component does not properly closes sub menu and handle highlighted item on mouse over.

### Reproduction

StackBlitz link: https://stackblitz.com/edit/x3u2hh?file=src%2Fexample%2Fmenu-nested-example.html
Steps to reproduce:
1. Open menu by clicking _Animal index_ button
2. Mouse Over _Vertebrates_ menu, the sub menu opens
3. Mouse Over _Menu item component_

### Expected Behavior

The Vertebrates sub menu should close and Vertebrates menu should no longer be highlighted
only menu-item _Menu item component_ should be highlighted

### Actual Behavior

The Vertebrates sub menu is still open and Vertebrates menu is still highlighted along with _Menu item component_

### Environment

- Angular: 16.1
- CDK/Material: 16.2.9
- Browser(s): chrome / Edge
- Operating System (e.g. Windows, macOS, Ubuntu): Windows 11

Start with the linked StackBlitz reproduction, especially src/example/menu-nested-example.html, and reproduce the hover sequence for the nested mat-menu. Trace the menu-item and matMenuTriggerFor interaction to determine why the parent remains highlighted and open; done means the Vertebrates submenu closes and only Menu item component remains highlighted.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.