bug(select[matNativeControl]): Sometimes the options are not triggered

### Is this a regression?

- [X] Yes, this behavior used to work in the previous version

### The previous version in which this bug was not present was

prior to mdc migration

### Description

when using `select[matNativeControl]` inside `` there's a couple of problems:

1. when using an empty string as the default option, the label appears within the form field. directly clicking the label does not trigger the options.
2. clicking just inside `mat-form-field` (inside the outline) also does not trigger the options

### Reproduction

StackBlitz link: https://stackblitz.com/edit/components-issue-r49x2i?file=src%2Fapp%2Fexample-component.html
Steps to reproduce:
1. click the label while it's within the form field
2. also click just inside the bounds of the form field

### Expected Behavior

triggers the options

### Actual Behavior

options are not triggered - label just moves up

### Environment

- Angular: 16.1.2
- CDK/Material: 16.1.3
- Browser(s): chrome
- Operating System (e.g. Windows, macOS, Ubuntu): macOS

Start with the linked StackBlitz reproduction and the interaction between select[matNativeControl] and mat-form-field appearance="outline". Reproduce the label and outline clicks, then verify that both trigger the options while preserving the expected label behavior.

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