feat(MatChipList): add better out-of-the-box support for FormControls

#### Reproduction

Use StackBlitz to reproduce your issue: https://stackblitz.com/edit/chips-autocomplete-required-failure?file=app/chips-autocomplete-example.ts

Steps to reproduce:
1. Fork the mat-chips autocomplete example from the Angular documentation
2. Move the form control to the mat-chip-list and add required attribute
3. Try using the auto complete 💥

NOTE: Followed suggestion in the following issue to add the required field, but that example doesn't include autocomplete. With this the autocomplete breaks. https://github.com/angular/components/issues/14195

#### Expected Behavior

The autocomplete should filter results based on text entered.

#### Actual Behavior

The autocomplete does not filter the results based on the text input from the user.

#### Environment

- Angular: 8.2.14
- CDK/Material: 8.2.3
- Browser(s): Chrome 81.0.4044.138
- Operating System (macOS): Mojave 10.14.6

Start with the StackBlitz reproduction in app/chips-autocomplete-example.ts and compare it with the Angular Material chips autocomplete example and issue 14195. Reproduce the failure with the FormControl moved to mat-chip-list and required added, then trace the MatChipList/autocomplete interaction. Done means autocomplete filters results from user text while the required control remains supported.

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