[CdkTable] consolidate data index in RowContext

#### Bug, feature request, or proposal: proposal

#### What is the expected behavior?
Property pointing at the location of the row in the data source should be the same
for `CdkCellOutletMultiRowContext` and `CdkCellOutletRowContext`

#### What is the current behavior?
The property pointing at the location of the row in the data source is `index` in single-row template mode and `dataIndex` in multi-row tempalte mode.

#### What is the use-case or motivation for changing an existing behavior?

When working with the context, to figure out which property to use one will have to have
access to the table to query `multiTemplateDataRows` or check both properties which is >= 0.

The use case is for more complex tables, where a row model is needed and the context can be used as such.

This get's really annoying when working with templates... you need to explicitly request `index` and `dataIndex` in the template and query for the one in use... because 0 is a valid value doing `||` is not good as you might end up with `undefined`

I know that `RowContext` is public thus `index` and `dataIndex` must stay but it can be deprecated in the long run...

The code in the method `_updateRowIndexContext()` can become:

```ts
context.index = context.dataIndex = this._renderRows[renderIndex].dataIndex;
if (this.multiTemplateDataRows) {
context.renderIndex = renderIndex;
}
```
Instead of

```ts
if (this.multiTemplateDataRows) {
context.dataIndex = this._renderRows[renderIndex].dataIndex;
context.renderIndex = renderIndex;
} else {
context.index = this._renderRows[renderIndex].dataIndex;
}
```

And in future version deprecate one of the properties.

Start by reading `_updateRowIndexContext()` and the issue's proposed change. Check how it updates `index`, `dataIndex`, and `renderIndex` for single-row and multi-row template modes. Done means both row context types expose the same data-source index while multi-row mode still sets the render index.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.