virtual-scroll: design interaction with server side rendering

Design how virtual scrolling will work with server side rendering. We can't measure items on the server.

Start by reviewing the virtual scrolling and server-side rendering areas of the Angular components repository; the issue does not name specific files, tests, or entry points. Define how virtual scrolling should behave when item measurements are unavailable on the server, and document the resulting design.

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