lazy_load_term_meta query param is always `true`

Due to how WP_Query initializes default query parameters, and ES WP Query's interaction with WP Query, the `lazy_load_term_meta` param ends up always being set to `true` when the internal query to fetch posts by id runs.

This ends up triggering `get_the_terms()` excessively, which leads to high numbers of cache and/or db reads.

The problem can be most readily seen by watching the `$q` var here:

https://github.com/alleyinteractive/es-wp-query/blob/5b6d5d093b2cba7d7a7a211638384030f909b3a4/class-es-wp-query-shoehorn.php#L218-L220

Before `$query->parse_query();` is run, `lazy_load_term_meta` is still `false`...yet after it has flipped to `true`.

As a workaround, it can be bypassed with a filter like this:

```
add_filter( 'pre_get_posts', function( &$query ) {
$query->set( 'lazy_load_term_meta', false );

return $query;
}, 9999 );
```