ci: refine CI trigger situation

**Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.**
Make CI run with suit situation, make log of CI better to read.

**Describe the solution you'd like**
- only run ci automatically when repository is alibaba/GraphScope
- don't run ci if PR is wip

**Describe alternatives you've considered**
no

**Additional context**
like what [apache arrow's CI](https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/9fc03015463a8f1cb616b088342b104fbc767a0c/.github/workflows/cpp.yml#L119) do