[BUG] Use jar-with-dependencies to package frontend artifacts in GIE

**Describe the bug**

It is quite superised that we didn't use `jar-with-dependency` to package the release artifacts for java. Recent changes about neo4j introduced some new jar dependency, double the size of the wheel package (https://pypi.org/project/graphscope/0.23.0a20230625/#files), makes graphscope hard to install with python ....

**Expected Outcome**

The ultimate goal is to reduce the size of wheels, which in this issue, is the artifacts of interactive engine. You could observe the size of artifacts of gie by `make interactive` and find `graphscope.tar.gz` within `interactive_engine/assembly/target`

**Additional context**
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Start with the interactive_engine assembly packaging configuration and run `make interactive` to inspect `interactive_engine/assembly/target/graphscope.tar.gz`. Trace how the GIE Java release artifacts and their dependencies are bundled, then verify that the resulting wheel artifacts are smaller without losing required dependencies.

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