Add append_dedupe feature for the MySQL destination

## Environment
- **Airbyte version**: 0.39.37-alpha
- **OS Version / Instance**: Ubuntu 22.04, AWS EC2
- **Deployment**: Docker (`docker-compose up`)
- **Source Connector and version**: Postgres 0.4.31 or MySQL 0.5.15
- **Destination Connector and version**: Postgres 0.3.20 or MySQL 0.1.20
- **Step where error happened**: Setup new connection

## Current Behavior
"Incremental Sync - Deduped History" does NOT show up in the "Set up connection" page if I try to setup a connection

- Postgres to MySQL
- MySQL to MySQL

>Where is "Incremental Sync - Deduped History"?

But "Incremental Sync - Deduped History" is selectable if you do Postgres to Postgres or MySQL to Postgres.

## Expected Behavior
Expected "Incremental Sync - Deduped History" to be one of the "Sync Mode" options in the dropdown menus for each table I want to sync.

## Logs
I can maybe give logs later.

## Steps to Reproduce
1. Create Postgres Source
2. Create MySQL Destination
3. Create a new Connection with Postgres as source, and MySQL as destination
4. Try to change the "Sync mode" for the tables. "Incremental Sync - Deduped History" does NOT show up as a possible option. Only "Full Refresh Overwrite", "Full Refresh Append" and "Incremental Append" shows up as possible options.

## Are you willing to submit a PR?
Maybe for another issue in the future.

See here for Slack thread:
https://airbytehq.slack.com/archives/C021JANJ6TY/p1657876134958799