`lines-around-directive` rule should replaced with `padding-line-between-statements`

see https://github.com/eslint/eslint/issues/16629#issuecomment-1341641006 from the eslint maintainer

Start by reading the linked ESLint maintainer discussion, then search the repository for references to `lines-around-directive` and `padding-line-between-statements`. Confirm the intended replacement and identify every affected configuration or documentation reference; done means the old rule is consistently replaced and the relevant checks pass.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.