Pre ping failing with uvloop

### Describe the bug

When using `aiomysql` with `uvloop==0.17.0`, whenever MySQL closes a connection (due to `wait_timeout`), the subsequent pre-ping command fails with:

```
RuntimeError: unable to perform operation on ; the handler is closed
```

This bug does not occur when `uvloop` is not used. Not sure whether to raise the issue with `uvloop` instead.

Might be related to https://github.com/aio-libs/aiomysql/issues/195?

### To Reproduce

1. Use `uvloop==0.17.0` and `uvicorn==0.23.2`.
1. Create a connection pool with `pre_ping=True` and `pool_recycle` not set.
1. Fire some queries.
1. Let MySQL close the connection due to the `wait_timeout`.
1. Send a HTTP request to the app and let the pre-ping request fail.

### Expected behavior

The pre-ping request should succeed, and the HTTP request should succeed as well.

### Logs/tracebacks

```python-traceback
ERROR [root] Error: unable to perform operation on ; the handler is closed
ERROR [root] Stack: Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/anyio/streams/memory.py", line 97, in receive
return self.receive_nowait()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/anyio/streams/memory.py", line 92, in receive_nowait
raise WouldBlock
anyio.WouldBlock

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/base.py", line 78, in call_next
message = await recv_stream.receive()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/anyio/streams/memory.py", line 112, in receive
raise EndOfStream
anyio.EndOfStream

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/hisd_be4fe/api/errors.py", line 33, in catch_middleware_exceptions
return await call_next(request)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/base.py", line 84, in call_next
raise app_exc
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/base.py", line 70, in coro
await self.app(scope, receive_or_disconnect, send_no_error)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/cors.py", line 91, in __call__
await self.simple_response(scope, receive, send, request_headers=headers)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/cors.py", line 146, in simple_response
await self.app(scope, receive, send)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/exceptions.py", line 79, in __call__
raise exc
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/exceptions.py", line 68, in __call__
await self.app(scope, receive, sender)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/fastapi/middleware/asyncexitstack.py", line 20, in __call__
raise e
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/fastapi/middleware/asyncexitstack.py", line 17, in __call__
await self.app(scope, receive, send)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/routing.py", line 718, in __call__
await route.handle(scope, receive, send)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/routing.py", line 276, in handle
await self.app(scope, receive, send)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/routing.py", line 66, in app
response = await func(request)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/fastapi/routing.py", line 231, in app
solved_result = await solve_dependencies(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/fastapi/dependencies/utils.py", line 622, in solve_dependencies
solved = await call(**sub_values)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "", line 2, in current_user_dependency
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/[redacted]/authentication/authenticator.py", line 143, in current_user_dependency
user, _ = await self._authenticate(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/[redacted]/authentication/authenticator.py", line 184, in _authenticate
user = await strategy.read_token(token, user_manager, authorized, ignore_expired)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/[redacted]/authentication/strategy/db/strategy.py", line 30, in read_token
access_token = await self.access_token_db.get_by_token(token, max_age, authorized, ignore_expired)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/[redacted]/[redacted]/access_token.py", line 76, in get_by_token
results = await self.session.execute(statement)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/ext/asyncio/session.py", line 439, in execute
result = await greenlet_spawn(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/util/_concurrency_py3k.py", line 190, in greenlet_spawn
result = context.throw(*sys.exc_info())
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/session.py", line 2246, in execute
return self._execute_internal(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/session.py", line 2131, in _execute_internal
conn = self._connection_for_bind(bind)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/session.py", line 1998, in _connection_for_bind
return trans._connection_for_bind(engine, execution_options)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "", line 2, in _connection_for_bind
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/state_changes.py", line 139, in _go
ret_value = fn(self, *arg, **kw)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/session.py", line 1123, in _connection_for_bind
conn = bind.connect()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/base.py", line 3264, in connect
return self._connection_cls(self)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/base.py", line 145, in __init__
self._dbapi_connection = engine.raw_connection()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/base.py", line 3288, in raw_connection
return self.pool.connect()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/pool/base.py", line 452, in connect
return _ConnectionFairy._checkout(self)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/pool/base.py", line 1366, in _checkout
with util.safe_reraise():
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/util/langhelpers.py", line 147, in __exit__
raise exc_value.with_traceback(exc_tb)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/pool/base.py", line 1304, in _checkout
result = pool._dialect._do_ping_w_event(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/default.py", line 708, in _do_ping_w_event
return self.do_ping(dbapi_connection)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/dialects/mysql/mysqldb.py", line 171, in do_ping
dbapi_connection.ping(False)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/dialects/mysql/aiomysql.py", line 191, in ping
return self.await_(self._connection.ping(reconnect))
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/util/_concurrency_py3k.py", line 125, in await_only
return current.driver.switch(awaitable) # type: ignore[no-any-return]
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/util/_concurrency_py3k.py", line 185, in greenlet_spawn
value = await result
^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiomysql/connection.py", line 493, in ping
await self._execute_command(COMMAND.COM_PING, "")
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiomysql/connection.py", line 724, in _execute_command
self._write_bytes(prelude + sql[:chunk_size - 1])
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiomysql/connection.py", line 669, in _write_bytes
return self._writer.write(data)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/asyncio/streams.py", line 332, in write
self._transport.write(data)
File "uvloop/handles/stream.pyx", line 674, in uvloop.loop.UVStream.write
File "uvloop/handles/handle.pyx", line 159, in uvloop.loop.UVHandle._ensure_alive
RuntimeError: unable to perform operation on ; the handler is closed

ERROR [root] Method: GET
ERROR [root] Url: [redacted]
ERROR [root] req_time: 2023-09-11 13:46:49.891968
ERROR [root] Error: unable to perform operation on ; the handler is closed
ERROR [root] Stack: Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/anyio/streams/memory.py", line 97, in receive
return self.receive_nowait()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/anyio/streams/memory.py", line 92, in receive_nowait
raise WouldBlock
anyio.WouldBlock

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/base.py", line 78, in call_next
message = await recv_stream.receive()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/anyio/streams/memory.py", line 112, in receive
raise EndOfStream
anyio.EndOfStream

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/hisd_be4fe/api/errors.py", line 33, in catch_middleware_exceptions
return await call_next(request)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/base.py", line 84, in call_next
raise app_exc
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/base.py", line 70, in coro
await self.app(scope, receive_or_disconnect, send_no_error)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/cors.py", line 91, in __call__
await self.simple_response(scope, receive, send, request_headers=headers)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/cors.py", line 146, in simple_response
await self.app(scope, receive, send)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/exceptions.py", line 79, in __call__
raise exc
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/middleware/exceptions.py", line 68, in __call__
await self.app(scope, receive, sender)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/fastapi/middleware/asyncexitstack.py", line 20, in __call__
raise e
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/fastapi/middleware/asyncexitstack.py", line 17, in __call__
await self.app(scope, receive, send)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/routing.py", line 718, in __call__
await route.handle(scope, receive, send)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/routing.py", line 276, in handle
await self.app(scope, receive, send)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/starlette/routing.py", line 66, in app
response = await func(request)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/fastapi/routing.py", line 231, in app
solved_result = await solve_dependencies(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/fastapi/dependencies/utils.py", line 622, in solve_dependencies
solved = await call(**sub_values)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "", line 2, in current_user_dependency
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/[redacted]/authentication/authenticator.py", line 143, in current_user_dependency
user, _ = await self._authenticate(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/[redacted]/authentication/authenticator.py", line 184, in _authenticate
user = await strategy.read_token(token, user_manager, authorized, ignore_expired)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/[redacted]/authentication/strategy/db/strategy.py", line 30, in read_token
access_token = await self.access_token_db.get_by_token(token, max_age, authorized, ignore_expired)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/[redacted]/filuta_uds/access_token.py", line 76, in get_by_token
results = await self.session.execute(statement)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/ext/asyncio/session.py", line 439, in execute
result = await greenlet_spawn(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/util/_concurrency_py3k.py", line 190, in greenlet_spawn
result = context.throw(*sys.exc_info())
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/session.py", line 2246, in execute
return self._execute_internal(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/session.py", line 2131, in _execute_internal
conn = self._connection_for_bind(bind)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/session.py", line 1998, in _connection_for_bind
return trans._connection_for_bind(engine, execution_options)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "", line 2, in _connection_for_bind
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/state_changes.py", line 139, in _go
ret_value = fn(self, *arg, **kw)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/orm/session.py", line 1123, in _connection_for_bind
conn = bind.connect()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/base.py", line 3264, in connect
return self._connection_cls(self)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/base.py", line 145, in __init__
self._dbapi_connection = engine.raw_connection()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/base.py", line 3288, in raw_connection
return self.pool.connect()
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/pool/base.py", line 452, in connect
return _ConnectionFairy._checkout(self)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/pool/base.py", line 1366, in _checkout
with util.safe_reraise():
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/util/langhelpers.py", line 147, in __exit__
raise exc_value.with_traceback(exc_tb)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/pool/base.py", line 1304, in _checkout
result = pool._dialect._do_ping_w_event(
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/engine/default.py", line 708, in _do_ping_w_event
return self.do_ping(dbapi_connection)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/dialects/mysql/mysqldb.py", line 171, in do_ping
dbapi_connection.ping(False)
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/dialects/mysql/aiomysql.py", line 191, in ping
return self.await_(self._connection.ping(reconnect))
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/util/_concurrency_py3k.py", line 125, in await_only
return current.driver.switch(awaitable) # type: ignore[no-any-return]
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sqlalchemy/util/_concurrency_py3k.py", line 185, in greenlet_spawn
value = await result
^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiomysql/connection.py", line 493, in ping
await self._execute_command(COMMAND.COM_PING, "")
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiomysql/connection.py", line 724, in _execute_command
self._write_bytes(prelude + sql[:chunk_size - 1])
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/site-packages/aiomysql/connection.py", line 669, in _write_bytes
return self._writer.write(data)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
File "/usr/local/lib/python3.11/asyncio/streams.py", line 332, in write
self._transport.write(data)
File "uvloop/handles/stream.pyx", line 674, in uvloop.loop.UVStream.write
File "uvloop/handles/handle.pyx", line 159, in uvloop.loop.UVHandle._ensure_alive
RuntimeError: unable to perform operation on ; the handler is closed
```

### Python Version

```console
3.11.4
```

### aiomysql Version

```console
0.2.0
```

### PyMySQL Version

```console
1.0.3
```

### SQLAlchemy Version

```console
2.0.19
```

### OS

Ubuntu 20.04.4 LTS

### Database type and version

```console
8.0.15
```

### Additional context

_No response_

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