concurrent anyio.aclose_forcefully fails to block until socket is closed on asyncio

### Things to check first

- [x] I have searched the existing issues and didn't find my bug already reported there

- [x] I have checked that my bug is still present in the latest release

### AnyIO version

f982b24986eac1ca8f34c91b0fdbaff8c378ba85

### Python version

3.12

### What happened?

Running the following tests fail on asyncio

```patch
From 267d773d30a63b9a22b6c389d7c099616e116628 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001
From: Thomas Grainger
Date: Wed, 12 Aug 2026 21:30:48 +0100
Subject: [PATCH] add
test_concurrent_aclose_forcefully_returns_before_socket_closes

---
tests/test_sockets.py | 18 ++++++++++++++++++
1 file changed, 18 insertions(+)

diff --git a/tests/test_sockets.py b/tests/test_sockets.py
index f475676..b1213ee 100644
--- a/tests/test_sockets.py
+++ b/tests/test_sockets.py
@@ -43,6 +43,7 @@ from anyio import (
TCPConnectable,
TypedAttributeLookupError,
UNIXConnectable,
+ aclose_forcefully,
as_connectable,
connect_tcp,
connect_unix,
@@ -507,6 +508,23 @@ class TestTCPStream:
with pytest.raises(ClosedResourceError):
await stream.receive()

+ async def test_concurrent_aclose_forcefully_returns_before_socket_closes(
+ self, server_addr: tuple[str, int]
+ ) -> None:
+ stream = await connect_tcp(*server_addr)
+ raw_socket = stream.extra(SocketAttribute.raw_socket)
+ fds: list[int] = []
+
+ async def do_aclose() -> None:
+ await aclose_forcefully(stream)
+ fds.append(raw_socket.fileno())
+
+ async with create_task_group() as tg:
+ tg.start_soon(do_aclose)
+ tg.start_soon(do_aclose)
+
+ assert fds == [-1, -1]
+
async def test_receive_after_close(self, server_addr: tuple[str, int]) -> None:
stream = await connect_tcp(*server_addr)
await stream.aclose()
--
2.43.0

```

gets

```
FAILED tests/test_sockets.py::TestTCPStream::test_concurrent_aclose_forcefully_returns_before_socket_closes[asyncio-ipv4] - assert [15, -1] == [-1, -1]
FAILED tests/test_sockets.py::TestTCPStream::test_concurrent_aclose_forcefully_returns_before_socket_closes[asyncio-ipv6] - assert [15, -1] == [-1, -1]
FAILED tests/test_sockets.py::TestTCPStream::test_concurrent_aclose_forcefully_returns_before_socket_closes[asyncio+uvloop-ipv4] - assert [23, -1] == [-1, -1]
FAILED tests/test_sockets.py::TestTCPStream::test_concurrent_aclose_forcefully_returns_before_socket_closes[asyncio+uvloop-ipv6] - assert [23, -1] == [-1, -1]
FAILED tests/test_sockets.py::TestTCPStream::test_concurrent_aclose_forcefully_returns_before_socket_closes[asyncio+eager-ipv4] - assert [17, -1] == [-1, -1]
FAILED tests/test_sockets.py::TestTCPStream::test_concurrent_aclose_forcefully_returns_before_socket_closes[asyncio+eager-ipv6] - assert [17, -1] == [-1, -1]
```

### How can we reproduce the bug?

see above