Table: Duplicate item id causes infinite collection and out of memory crash

### Provide a general summary of the issue here

After a recent react-aria upgrade we started seeing our Node servers tip over due to running out of memory. We managed to track the cause to be how we were constructing rows in our RAC based Table component.

Specifically, two or more rows sharing a single `id` when set via props on the Row element is where we saw the problem.

### 🤔 Expected Behavior?

Maybe we should warn in this case? Or ignore subsequent items with conflicting keys?

### 😯 Current Behavior

Page/app crashes once the array grows too large.

### 💁 Possible Solution

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### 🔦 Context

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### 🖥️ Steps to Reproduce

https://codesandbox.io/p/sandbox/winter-moon-szxxyj

### Version

react-aria-components@1.7.1

### What browsers are you seeing the problem on?

Chrome

### If other, please specify.

Also in Node during SSR

### What operating system are you using?

macos

### 🧢 Your Company/Team

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### 🕷 Tracking Issue

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