ComboBox/Select easily becames laggy

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When the ComboBox or Select component have a bit more items, they easily become laggy, because the full list re-renders on a single item hover. This makes them not scale well with data. It's not the case with the standalone ListBox however, rendering is optimized in that. Only when it belongs to a ComboBox or Select. The rendering behavior can be observed by turning on the React DevTools "highlight updates" feature.

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No file or test is named. Start by locating the ComboBox and Select rendering paths, then compare their hover behavior with the standalone ListBox while using React DevTools' highlight updates feature. Done means hovering an item no longer causes the full ComboBox or Select list to re-render and remains responsive with more items.

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