Row renderProps never called for focus

### Provide a general summary of the issue here

See commented out test here https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/pull/5265/files#diff-a13c00134586126ed1d1f02bf6549ac11dd15c3e8b300a7dc89d6829992356f4R649

We aren't calling the child function with the updated renderProps when a row is hovered

### 🤔 Expected Behavior?

Row's child function is called again with the updated renderProps which match the data-* attributes

### 😯 Current Behavior

Does not update

### 💁 Possible Solution

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### 🔦 Context

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### 🖥️ Steps to Reproduce

Uncomment code, run test. Alternatively, open storybook from the same PR and add a console.log, it won't be called after initial render if you tab to the table and navigate around.

### Version

latest

### What browsers are you seeing the problem on?

Chrome

### If other, please specify.

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### What operating system are you using?

MacOS

### 🧢 Your Company/Team

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### 🕷 Tracking Issue

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Start with the commented-out test linked in pull request 5265 at the referenced diff, then inspect the row and table rendering path it exercises. Run the test and reproduce the issue by tabbing to the table and navigating rows; done means the child function is called with updated renderProps matching the data-* attributes.

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