GridList item data-focus-visible is set after a drop action

### Provide a general summary of the issue here

Aria component `GridList` documents item `data-focus-visible` as being "Whether the item is currently keyboard focused.".

However, it appears to be getting set after a drop operation completes on the list.

### 🤔 Expected Behavior?

The item is not focused because a keyboard action did not occur.

### 😯 Current Behavior

Item has the `data-focus-visible` attribute set.

### 💁 Possible Solution

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### 🔦 Context

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### 🖥️ Steps to Reproduce

This is observable in the first drag-and-drop example in the documentation: https://react-spectrum.adobe.com/react-aria/GridList.html#drag-and-drop .

### Version

1.0.0-nightly.4070

### What browsers are you seeing the problem on?

Chrome

### If other, please specify.

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### What operating system are you using?

Windows, Linux

### 🧢 Your Company/Team

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