aria-disabled is not passed to MenuItem/ListBoxItem/Tab/TreeItem

### Provide a general summary of the feature here

I'm trying to implement focusable, disabled MenuItem (https://www.w3.org/WAI/ARIA/apg/practices/keyboard-interface/#focusabilityofdisabledcontrols) but it is not passed to DOM element. ListBoxItem and Tab also have this issue. Haven't checked TreeItem.

### 🤔 Expected Behavior?

MenuItem div element should have aria-disabled.

### 😯 Current Behavior

aria-disabled is not passed, unlike Button.

### 💁 Possible Solution

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### 🔦 Context

https://www.w3.org/WAI/ARIA/apg/practices/keyboard-interface/#focusabilityofdisabledcontrols

### 💻 Examples

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### 🧢 Your Company/Team

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### 🕷 Tracking Issue

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Trace the MenuItem, ListBoxItem, Tab, and TreeItem component entry points to see how their disabled state is rendered to the DOM, comparing the behavior with Button. Verify the affected DOM elements expose aria-disabled and add or update coverage for each affected component.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.