[Table] Multiple renders on Shift+Tab

### Provide a general summary of the issue here

If you `Tab` into the table, you can see the render in every single cell of the table
If you `Tab` out of the table, you can see the render in every single cell of the table
But if you press `Shift + Tab` to leave the table, you will see 4x renders of each cell in the table

### 🤔 Expected Behavior?

Good: 1 render on any tab action
Excellent: render only the necessary cells, not the whole table

### 😯 Current Behavior

4x renders when you press Shift + Tab in table

### 💁 Possible Solution

This is a fix of this bug:
https://github.com/adobe/react-spectrum/pull/10247

### 🔦 Context

In our project, we have huge dynamic tables (many on one screen), and any additional rendering affects UX

### 🖥️ Steps to Reproduce

Turn on "Highlight updates" in React Dev Tools on this page:
https://react-aria.adobe.com/Table

Then focus on any cell in the table and then press `Shift + Tab`. You will see 4x on each table cell

### Version

1.19.0 (latest)

### What browsers are you seeing the problem on?

Chrome

### If other, please specify.

_No response_

### What operating system are you using?

MacOS

### 🧢 Your Company/Team

dxFeed(Devexperts)

### 🕷 Tracking Issue

_No response_

Start with the Table example at https://react-aria.adobe.com/Table and reproduce the Shift+Tab behavior with React DevTools' Highlight updates enabled. Compare the behavior with the fix described in react-spectrum PR #10247, then verify that Shift+Tab produces one render per cell, or only renders necessary cells, without regressions for Tab actions.

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