Create files and directories according to XDG spec

### Description

https://github.com/abiosoft/colima/discussions/1093#discussioncomment-11720708

The `_lima` and the `daemon` dirs and the docker sockets are currently created within the `XDG_CONFIG_HOME` dir.
These contain log files, private keys and state, therefor they should be created in other XDG dirs according to the XDG spec:
XDG_CACHE_HOME
XDG_DATA_HOME
XDG_STATE_HOME

### Version

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### Operating System

- [X] macOS Intel <= 13 (Ventura)
- [X] macOS Intel >= 14 (Sonoma)
- [X] Apple Silicon <= 13 (Ventura)
- [X] Apple Silicon >= 14 (Sonoma)
- [X] Linux

### Output of `colima status`

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### Expected behaviour

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### Additional context

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