FEATURE REQUEST: Add support for wildmode and possibly wildmenu

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
When opening a new file with the :e command in vim, I find it frustrating when hitting tab cycles through items without showing me what the options are. Personally, I've gotten used to wildmode=list:longest, but I could also see wildmenu being very helpful here.

Describe the solution you'd like
I would love it if we could get full support for vim's wildmode option. I think wildmenu would also be great.

Describe alternatives you've considered
I've tried to get used to the vscode's file explorer, but after about 9 years of using :e it's hard to get used to. The file I'm looking also isn't always visible in the list - :e ../asdf/<tab> is a lot easier than <ctrl-w> h followed by scrolling far up or down in the list (assume for example the file list is below the asdf directory and asdf/node_modules is open in the file explorer - this could take a long time to scroll).

I also sometimes will use ctrl-p, but that's only helpful if I know the name of the file I'm searching for. It's nice to be able to just hit :e <tab> and see a list of files in the current folder (similar to just typing ls in bash).

Additional context
I don't think any additional context is necessary, but I can add to this if suggested in the comments.

The issue names no files or tests. Start by locating the command-line completion entry point for :e and the existing Tab behavior, then compare it with Vim's wildmode and wildmenu semantics. Done means the requested completion modes work consistently and are covered by appropriate tests.