Column resizing doesn't respect `clientWidth`, bad experience with limited width tables

TanStack Table version

8.20.6

Framework/Library version

18.3

Describe the bug and the steps to reproduce it

Take the official full width resizable table example
https://tanstack.com/table/v8/docs/framework/react/examples/full-width-resizable-table

With limited screen space, grow a column, and then grow it some more.
You'll notice that the state now has a ridiculous amount of width, while the column is still fairly small visually.
This means that to size it down_ you now need to drag the handle left a lot without much result.

The solution would be to detect that dragging is over and set the column size to the header element's clientWidth, but I'm not entirely sure how to achieve that.

Your Minimal, Reproducible Example - (Sandbox Highly Recommended)

https://tanstack.com/table/v8/docs/framework/react/examples/full-width-resizable-table

Screenshots or Videos (Optional)

Do you intend to try to help solve this bug with your own PR?

No, because I do not have time to dig into it

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Start with the official full-width-resizable-table React example linked in the issue and reproduce the behavior with limited screen space. Inspect how resizing uses the header element and clientWidth; done means repeated growth no longer creates excessive stored width and the column can be resized down normally.