Custom Field Meta does not updated until input touched after 1.26.0

Describe the bug

I am using custom field meta's heavily, for example style={{ display: field.state.meta?.hidden ? 'none' : 'block' }}, for every field I have set of these meta's like dataSource, hidden, disabled, and others...

in example there is two field firstName and color, I have listener.onMount that hide firstName (through field.setMeta()) if color is "red", in v1.26.0 and before it works well, after this version it does not hide until I touch the field firstName

example use v1.26.0, change package version to see the problem

Your minimal, reproducible example

https://stackblitz.com/edit/vitejs-vite-kqn6fekp?file=package.json,src%2Fsimple-form.tsx,src%2FApp.tsx&terminal=dev

Steps to reproduce

1. notice in example field firstName is hidden by default (it is hidden in onMount)
2. change the color to "green" field firstName will appear
3. upgrade tanstack-form version to newer version
4. after refresh you will notice firstName now is not hidden
5. touch the field firstName now it will hide

Expected behavior

compare by previous steps I exp expect:

1. notice in example field firstName is hidden by default (it is hidden in onMount)
2. change the color to "green" field firstName will appear
3. upgrade tanstack-form version to newer version
4. field firstName should still hidden by default

How often does this bug happen?

Every time

Screenshots or Videos

No response

Platform

• OS: [linux, windows]
• Browsers: [chrome, vivaldi]

TanStack Form adapter

react-form

TanStack Form version

1.27.7

TypeScript version

5.9.3

Additional context

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Run the StackBlitz reproduction using the files named in package.json, src/simple-form.tsx, and src/App.tsx. Compare TanStack Form 1.26.0 with 1.27.7, following the onMount meta update and the firstName rendering behavior. Done means firstName is hidden initially and updates correctly when color changes without touching firstName.