AOTMode=create subprocess drops non "-XX:" JVM args, breaking --add-modules / --enable-preview

I think https://github.com/PaperMC/tack/blob/12766ae9ad7748bc28b98581e4830a7273f3bfbb/src/aot/record.rs#L260 should also include "--" args, so it would look like this:

.filter(|arg| arg.starts_with("-XX:") || arg.starts_with("--"))

since I've just had an issue where "--add-modules=jdk.incubator.vector" and "--enable-preview" were dropped and tack was unable to create the AOT cache file:

[0.098s][info][aot] archived module property jdk.module.addmods: jdk.incubator.vector
[0.098s][error][aot] An error has occurred while processing the AOT configuration file. Run with -Xlog:aot for details.
[0.098s][error][aot] Mismatched values for property jdk.module.addmods: jdk.incubator.vector specified during dump time but not during runtime
[0.098s][error][aot] Disabling optimized module handling
...
[0.399s][error][aot] java.lang.NoClassDefFoundError: jdk/incubator/vector/ByteVector
[0.399s][error][aot] Please check if your VM command-line is the same as in the training run
[0.399s][error][aot] An error has occurred while writing the shared archive file.

Both were dropped; the one that actually broke the build is "--add-modules", as the log shows.

Start in src/aot/record.rs around line 260, where JVM arguments are filtered while creating the AOT subprocess. Reproduce the case with --add-modules and --enable-preview, then verify that the AOT cache can be created with those arguments preserved.